The surge in African-Americans infusing traditional African themes into weddings continues to grow. A large part of these efforts play out in selecting wedding themes. Since, it is unlikely that couples will find what they want through mainstream designers, looking to the continent takes one on a cultural excursion where history and tradition merge through a myriad of ceremonial practices.  Even when practices are scaled down they prove to vary significantly from European weddings, offering a different and beautiful experience.

Popular culture, has helped in increasing the numbers of African-Americans borrowing concepts from African sisters and brothers in ceremony and dress. Also utilized are African-American tradition. In Alex Haley’s, Roots, we watched a “jumping the broom” ceremony where couples paid homage to ancestors and each other. This small act validated unions between African-Americans where marriage was not recognized as legal in the states. An example, of validation for ourselves, by ourselves, the act exemplifies how we found ways to add a more cultural feel to our wedding day memories.

The practice continues in modern day marriages, where couples take part in “jumping the broom”, which sometimes includes a reading that is shared with the couple, and serves to bless the union. Wedding guests, may be asked to write down wisdom/love advice that is given to the couple to read at a later date.

The broom itself, is elaborately decorated and becomes a wedding day keepsake for the couple to keep in their home. Some couples pass the broom down to children in hopes that they will use it during their own wedding ceremonies.  We find another example in the movie, Coming to America, where Eddie Murphy plays an African Prince.  The comedy provided insight into royal wedding practices (admittedly influenced by Hollywood) and the sacred and elaborate process of sharing vows.

The above examples are decades old, but speak to the desire of African-Americans to pay homage to African roots, on their wedding day.

The differences separating European and African weddings are vast, however, the information can be researched and scaled down to accommodate couples looking for a deeper cultural experience. For more information check out the book authored by Harriet Cole, “Jumping the Broom”.

Do note, African weddings vary from country to country, as do the cultural components. There is no single way to do work your theme. However, research and creativity work together in creating lasting memories of your perfect day.